Edited Oct 30, 2020 Write by https://medium.com/@nishasapkota898/a-happy-soul-22f3cbd5698d
The word life has a different meaning for every creature residing here on the earth. Life here goes on no matter what . You face ,you fall , you get up and move again. The struggle we do everyday is all for Living , getting better everyday. Moving hyperbolically counting the achievements and upgrading a newer version of yourself everyday.
The circumstances in life are the sharpener for making us sharper everyday. Waking up with a new thought and a vision for you and for me. We dream, we fail, we suffer and then we get sharpened . And then we get point at the edges, adding a bit more shine everyday like a diamond in the rough. Moulding yourself with the waves of the wind and keeping yourself warm on the pouring rain. It’s all about patience.
Sometimes there are choices and sometimes you lack them. Go for what makes you happy. Just imagine the consequences after choosing the option .What you struggle for is finding your soul happy , a comfort zone where you can close your eyes and get lost in the music of the air finding yourself secure. And when you lack any choice , make an effort on yourself. Life is all about effort and destiny. Effort may be your hard work, your dedication, your sleepless nights with the hard black coffee and your 3 am alarm. It may be your passion for what you love and the power of you being yourself or may be the lesson you learned when you failed last time. Your destiny is the point that leaded by the hard work you did.
There are stages in life, everyday ain’t sunshine , rains are beautiful too but you have to prepare yourself for the storm .Just hold yourself tight. Count the numbers , how many times you cried and compensate with laughter. Setting your mind for the next sunrise is the way of making yourself stronger everyday. When the light hits the falling rain it’s prettier than before. Be astonishing to yourself with progresses everyday, see yourself from inside out. Pour yourself and then you see rainbows are better than the sunlight alone.
Your soul is what fascinates other. Live to express than to impress. Love yourself the way you are the worst mistake you do is comparing yourself with the other.
Mould yourself the way you want to but only for the sake of your own satisfaction. Find your weaknesses and insecurities , go deeper and try to tackle with them. Make yourself harder everyday. The word perfection is a myth.Be the first one to fall in love with yourself and forever. Carve yourself making the edges sharper, your soul brighter and your scars dimmer. Let the pain be pleasure and your weaknesses your strength.
Changes are meant to be but they’re never for the acceptance of others,
Compete with yourself , the one who you were, the day before. Look at the mirror and detect the change, a positive one. Be the rock and let the wind kiss you. . What matters is your determination towards yourself ,your self respect and your dignity. This must be your first choice. Once you start standing for yourself, no other can move you. Be strong enough to decline and say no to things that bother you. Find more positivity, it’s okay to change the circle you’re in , just to make yourself comfortable. Let people not affect your brightness. Reflect the inner you , be transparent like water.
- The main purpose of life is learning and growing. Education doesn’t mean you recognise the letters , you need to get knowledge, enlightenment . The positive aura that works for the well being of every creature, that showers the positivity for all. It’s not certificate what you work hard for , it’s the power of knowledge that you gain access everyday. You can get certified for going on institutions but not for learning through behaviours, lives and nature. This is a priceless acknowledgement. The process of learning should not be limited within the institution , the movie you watched, the song you heard and even a walk outside may teach you something . Learning is a immortal process , someone else can learn from your story when you die. Learn from everyone but never try to copy them. Search for good souls with good hearts and behaviours rather than getting attracted to fancy life styles and good faces. Be realistic rather than materialistic, showing off is a drowned fashion. Make up your mind that the next day I am going to live is to learn.
Changing your goal to make your soul delight
Count laughter rather than counting height
Every sunshine at the end becomes night
It is your insecurities with whom you fight.
